Having a very high sex drive is one thing. We all like what we like, and want it when we want it. However, wanting your man who goes by Daddy or Sir to bruise you and use you as he sees fit, or to tie you up from the rafters in the basement and make you moan and cry, or to punish you because you broke a rule, well, that is a whole other ball game. Now just add having a very high sex drive and to all of that, and to then wanting be owned and then having them care for your every need and your very well being. This is what I consider the holy grail of a relationship.
In my eyes, being a dominant or a submissive, and to live that daily, gets me hot just thinking about it. It makes me want to confess some of my deepest and darkest desires and secrets. Maybe you want to know how to become what I am, or what my daddy is to me. Or simply you want to see if there is any way to further your own relationship in a more intense and intimate way. Or maybe, something completely entirely different. Whatever your reason for wanting to learn more, I will confess to you and you take it where you will.
Maybe you just want basic tips, that will be here too. Maybe you are trying to come up with a new name for your pet, or lover…again, you will find some here. This is a real life version of a basic how to become a dom or sub, and how to implement kinky sex into play, and maybe a trick or two to help you learn the “ropes”!
We chose this name for this blog because this is what it is going to be. I will start. The sub. His sub, also known as Babygirl.
At first, I wanted us to share our story so that we could help others or even just give someone something to think about. Think about it. What made you even find this blog? Was there anything special you were or are trying to find? That’s why I originally wanted to do this. I brought it to Daddy’s attention that I wanted to help others. That I wanted to share our story. Of course I asked for Sir’s permission, but I also asked him to be part of it. Not only did my daddy give me full permission, he encouraged it and said he was even going to give me goals and would definitely help in any way he could.
Originally this blog was going to be called something else, but the name he and I came up with, it was good, but just didn’t seem to be quite right. While I was driving to work one day, I was thinking about those I have already helped by meeting them in person and talking to them about where the whole BDSM thing could go for them and how much I already helped others. Then I realized that Daddy and I were really not just telling a story but we were confessing all of our secrets to the world. Something that we would normally keep private. That’s when I realized the name for the blog was all wrong and Confessions Of A Dom/sub was born.
It’s pretty freaking awesome to be able to share this with you all. I feel so damn lucky to have found my true love and that he is willing to not only let me share with you but to have the dom’s perspective…not just mine as a submissive. I feel that in order to truly get the best version of us, you need to see all sides.
This blog is my baby, even though I am not doing it alone. If you think of it, we really never go through anything alone. Even when we think we are, there is always something or someone that is involved in one way or another. I do not want anyone to ever feel alone. My baby was born because I wanted others to find a place to learn and grow and not be alone.
I am not sure where this blog will go, or even how far it will be taken. All I do know is that I am willing to take this as far as you allow me to go. Or as far as you are willing to go with me.
The plan is to release as many confessions as we can! We also discussed you as readers being able to contact us. That is in the works!
We hope you enjoy it!
XOXO,
Daddy’s babygirl